I am a rubenesque (42/40/44) 39 year old women. I enjoy the arts, but most especially the stage and musical theater. I love to cook for and pamper a partner, and I love (and expect) to be pampered in return. I also enjoy dancing, karaoke, SCA, shooting pool and playing foosball. Part exhibitionist, part voyeur - I'm looking to indulge my senses while intellectually enjoying the person I'm with. I do tend to be a homebody but, with the right motivation, I'll try almost anything. (BDSM, anal and fetishes are a big turn-off though.) I'm polyamoric and have a burgeoning interest in trying group activities.

My Ideal Person I love the 'teddy-bears' - while looking at a fit and trim body can get my engine going, what I truly enjoy is the soft, lush feel of a slightly pudgy man (emphasis on slightly). Washboard abs can stay at the gym, I prefer the sensuous feeling of a few extra inches I can hold onto. I also love tall men (5'10-6' or so is just about perfect), and a well hung guy (8" or more, circumsised and thick) is the absolute tops on my list. I also prefer my men between the ages of 28-48 and with a relatively high sex drive.

Ideally, I'm looking for a best-friend with benefits (or two, or three). Someone who is comfortable just dropping by for a visit or to watch a game on TV, as well as going out for a night on the town and enjoying the more pleasurable aspects of an adult relationship. A meeting of the minds and bodies, but not neccessarily the heart. I want a 'buddy', in the most fun sense of the word.

Most importantly, I am looking for someone who enjoys a more well-rounded body than average. (After all, we all have our ideals, right?) Also, I'm interested in finding someone in a specific geographic location - anyone interested will need to live in the Upper Valley area of VT/NH. Married guys are fine as long as the Mrs. is aware it's an open relationship. If you're thinking of stepping out on the sly though, then I'm not your girl. Seriously guys, I hold honesty in a relationship as sacred, if you are not free to 'see and be seen' then I want no part of you.

After reading all this, if you think you'd like to get to know me better, you'll find my alternate contact info listed below. (Just be sure to say where it is that you saw me, otherwise I might take you for a troll and just ignore your message.)

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
LKP; 8084; Moody Blues; Bare Naked Ladies; Phil Collins ...

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Threesomes, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
I don't really fantasize about celebrities, though there are some that I would be more than willing to jump into bed with: Anthony Michael Hall, Goran Visnjic, Nicholas Brendan, and Jerry O'Connell (to name just a few). ;)

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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