I've learned several things since I joined AFF. First of all, I have learned how to be happy with who I am as a per, and also how to change whatever I don't like about myself. I'm a 32 year old male, 5'9", 180ish, blue eyes, short ash blond hair, hairy body. I'm not the most gorgeous guy in the world, but I do look good. I have been unhappy with my build for some time now, and recently been working to change that (with results beginning to show). Second, most of the profiles that sound too good to be true usually are. Third, profiles that say everything about sex in 2 sentences are usually falsies. Fourth, and foremost, if someone has looked through all those profiles, found someone they are interested in, and e-mails them, they are worth responding to. /wink Oh, and lastly, I LOVE to show my cock to women on cam (and other places). It's almost become a fetish.

My Ideal Person What am I looking for in a person? That's a good question. It's hard to find something you're not looking for... I guess I'm still looking for my soulmate, although I don't expect to find her here. So, what am I looking for on this site? I could answer sex, but everyone here is looking for that, so that's obvious. Am I looking for a one-night stand? Probably not. Am I looking for a relationship? Again, probably not. I think the best way to describe what I'm looking for is simply this... "COMPANIONSHIP".

So, what's my definition of companionship? Someone who will be there for me, and I can be there for them. Someone who is honest, trustworthy, and reliable, as I strive to be. Someone who can look beyond friendship or even relationships and see that love can exist between two people that is beyond labeling, as I have seen.

How will I know if I've found a companion? Much better question. It's obviously not something I'll know on first sight (or, at least, I don't think I will), nor is it something that will take years to discover. Can I know after having a drink with someone? Maybe. A date? Possibly. A fuck? Probably not, but it's a nice start. /grin

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I'm sitting in class, waiting for the teacher to arrive. The teacher walks in wearing a short skirt and a tight shirt. She sits at her desk and as she sits, she pulls her glasses down to the end of her nose, looking me over with her beautiful, piercing eyes. As her eyes wander lower, she notes the bulge in my pants under my desk. She smiles all-too-knowingly and proceeds to teach the class. Every so often, she bends over in front of me, giving me a look down her tight shirt at her cleavage, or she'll drop something and bend over to pick it up, giving me a sweet view under her skirt. She continues this behavior pattern for a couple of weeks. Finally, one day she asks for our homework. She walks by my desk, only to find that I don't have it. "Alex," she says, "I'm very disappointed in you." She walks to her desk and sets the papers down. Without turning around, she softly speaks. "Class dismissed." As I gather my stuff, she says in a soft, but commanding voice, "All but you, Alex." As the last classmate leaves, they close the door. Without looking at me, the teacher walks to the door, locking it. She takes the clip out of her hair, letting it fall luxuriously over her shoulders. She looks at me, giving me a beautiful smile that tells me I'm going to enjoy this. "So, Alex," she says, "Looks as though you'll be doing a few 'extracurricular activities' to make up that grade, won't you?" I look back at her with a look of excitement in my eyes and say, "Yes ma'am." She takes off her glasses and nibbles on them lightly. "Why don't we start off with a little 'sextra credit' work on human anatomy." Her play on words doesn't escape my attention, and the bulge in my pants doesn't escape hers. She moves closer and grabs my cock through my pants. "Well," she says, "looks as though I have a good grasp on male anatomy, lets see how good a grasp you have on female anatomy." She takes my hand with hers and cups her breast with it...

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A movie theatre, Just about any public place

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Role Playing, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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