What can I say about myself that makes me different from other blokes on here? Well, firstly, I'm for real! I'm genuine, honest and serious about meeting people. I'm single, and currently in an open relationship with a very sexy, equally open-minded woman. I'm taller than most at 6'5", and though I've ticked the "extra padding" box, I'm not too out of shape. I'm a forty-something still struggling to come to terms with no longer being a twenty-something! I'm pretty unshockable - there are so many sexy things I'll do or want to try, though I'm always conscious of my partners' wishes, desires or limits. I get that No means No. My outlook is that sex is about fun. It's about everyone getting pleasure, and lots of it. It's about a long, slow, build-up to mutual satisfaction. I'm not looking for a "life partner", nor a one-night-stand. What I am hoping for are new friends who like to fuck a lot, but who are happy with their own life and not looking for the complications of a "relationship". I have my own place and/or can travel. I can be discrete, but have no need to hide anything myself.

My Ideal Person Someone who is comfortable with the idea that we can have regular, dirty sex for its own sake without the conventional ties and commitments?

Someone who realises we can be friends, have respect for one another, even care about each other if the chemistry is right, without worrying about where it will all lead.

Someone who lives for today, but doesn't forget about tomorrow.

Someone who is open minded, horny, and maybe more than a little kinky!

Someone who likes the idea of a threesome?

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Meeting a sexy, open minded, horny, partner on this site. Getting to know each other and finding out what makes us happy - then going and doing it. A lot.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Any with intimate piercings - especially nipples!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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