I am a 43 year old SWM who has been here on AFF, off and on since 2002 (I think). I have chatted with some of you (and complemented you as I am very kind, caring, considerate, sincere and somewhat patient too). I am also somewhat passive when it comes to putting my game out there. Sorry but I am just not THAT smooth. However, as I said, I am sincere. If I have contacted you then you can rest assured I am interested in you. I am incredibly overworked as well as (most likely) a workaholic. So what am I doing here? Who has time for fun and games? Well I wish I did.

My Ideal Person Look, I'll be honest, though I like most all women what really turns me on are when you lovely ladies wear boots (knee high are great but I really love thigh high). Even more interesting is that lately I have found myself drawn to African-American and Hispanic women. Every day I am stunned by a beauty here in this fair city.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Radio Birdman, Grant Green, Sonic's Rendezvous, MC5

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Latex, Boots (on the woman)

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Alice Austen

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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