We have been married for 15 years and have a strong, loving, and trusting relationship. We both enjoy seeing each other happy and have just stumbled into the excitement and pleasure of seeing each other doing things with someone else. We are completly new to this so for now we are looking to ease into it. Most likely soft swapping and oral. Not sure if we will be ready for full swapping at some point, but will need to work up to that. We have very limited experience so far... Just some mild fondling and groping. Her watching me play with another woman's breasts and rubbing her inner thighs. My wife wanted to see more but the other couple didn't feel comfortable so we stopped. It is important to us that there is trust with everyone involved and that everyone is comfortable and enjoying the situation. Really looking for either a more experienced couple willing to help us in this journey (and have some patience while we acclimate) or a new couple like us that also is taking things slow.