We're very intimately connected and have been totally inseparable since meeting in 2020. We're a non-married couple that loves one another and also enjoys exploring new sexual partners and experiences together. We love how much the Lifestyle has enriched and strengthened our relationship and bond. Physically, we will show up looking like our pictures (or hopefully better). He's tall, classically handsome with the sexiest hazel eyes. She thinks he's an incredible kisser and he still gives her butterflies! She has sexy curves with dark hair and pouty lips and he thinks she's the perfect little handful. We're social people who value the friendships we've made in the Lifestyle and take a no-pressure approach to meeting new people. We want to genuinely get to know you before anything sexual advances. Like so many sexy and sophisticated couples in the Lifestyle, we believe in routine STI testing and other safe sex practices and we care about our health and the health of our partners. Condoms are nonnegotiable. If we like you we're totally going to want to kiss your face and other parts of you. That said in all seriousness sex without kissing for us would feel very awkward.

My Ideal Person We are most focused on finding fun, friendly couples and bisexual women for friendship and to explore shared fantasies. We desire involvements that are enticing, passionate, fun, and progress naturally. We're most attracted to people who are honest, open, communicative and confident enough to present themselves in a genuine way.

With singles, we aren't seeking exclusivity or to form a triad or committed polyamory situation. Simply a very close involvement that's fulfilling and positive for everyone.

With couples we seek friendly outgoing pairs for friendship and to explore shared fantasies. We lean really heavily towards group dynamics versus straight swapping partners, so for that reason we match better when the female half is also bisexual. We want to be a spent tangled mess by the end. Attraction and chemistry between all four of us is important for us to take it further. Otherwise, lifestyle friends are always welcome, but physical involvement might be better for each of us elsewhere. Be matured in knowing how to handle being in the lifestyle together goes a very long way with us.

We are not actively seeking solo males to join us, but yet we both keep our eyes open and would communicate that if the rare man that we would be interested in happens to come along or that we get to know. So, we ask solo males to refrain from soliciting us. Simply, we'll find you versus us having to constantly reject the majority we'll never be in alignment with or attracted to.

We'll communicate boundaries together beforehand, but it's a success in our minds if nothing is overly scripted and everything unfolds naturally. All of our sexual impulses surface and we're all comfortable to act upon them while still respecting any established hard limits.

We really do look for friendship first and we enjoy group chats as a good way of getting to know each other and ensuring everyone's on the same page. Before we get to a first meeting, we will want to exchange face pictures. These do not need to be sexual, but we find it an important step in gauging initial attraction. How else will we know if we want to kiss your face?

An ideal way to start for us is meeting socially or out for drinks in the Northern Virginia area. We will consider elsewhere if we'd get to know you and are comfortably acquainted.

Completely random Friend requests without ever having spoken in any substantial way are very likely to be denied. The annoying "Hi or Hey there" messages or IM's show a complete lack of effort and will be ignored. These type of things are an immediate pass for us. We're not wasting our time with that kind of stupidity. Be relational or you're never going to get to kiss our faces! 😂