Hey there! I'm an easy going, nonjudgmental girl who's looking for new things to try out. I'm the type who's rarely the first to make a move, but once things are moving, I'm really something else. I'm your typical upbeat perality, proud of the choices I've made and the life I lead. For me a perfect Friday night is looking for adventure-and finding it. A perfect date is one where we head out with a plan, but we go where the night takes us. I've reached the point where I'm free to do what I want, with who I want (timing is still an issue-keep reading). When I'm at home alone, I divide my time between the television and the computer. I prefer to stay open to whatever comes my way. I like to have friends who I can get physical with. Feel free to drop me a line and I promise(if you are within my age limits or part of my group) to write you back as soon as possible. I'm not changing my life, I'm changing how I live it. I look forward to whatever life brings, whether that be a friend with benies, or a life long partner. I like to just have fun, without high expectations (or sex within the first face to face meet)! I am a smartass and prefer to engage with others that can keep up a steady conversation. Most importantly of all, be true to yourself and others (in this case me) as I really do mean what I say and say what I mean, be it friend or foe...but I am a very caring friend who stays in touch with those who enjoy true friendship (with or without sex)

My Ideal Person I DO NOT DO MARRIED OR DISCREET-THERE IS MORE TO ME THEN A QUICKIE.IF YOU DO NOT PLAY WITH CONDOMS,DO NOT RESPOND- AS THERE WILL BE NO PLAY BETWEEN US! IF YOU ARE NOT CONFIDENT WITH YOUR SIZE AND WIDTH OF YOUR MANHOOD, I DON'T DISH OUT EGO BOOSTERS JUST TO MAKE YOU FEEL GOOD. I DON'T AND WON'T SWEAR YOU ARE THE LONGEST, WIDEST, BEST IN BED, ETC.-IF YOU NEED THAT, FIND A WOMAN WHO WANTS TO LIVE IN YOUR FANTASY WORLD-I LIVE IN REALITY. IF I LIKE YOU OR YOUR SKILLS, I WILL TELL YOU, IF NOT, I WILL STILL STAY IN TOUCH IF YOU WANT A FRIEND OR SOMEONE TO HANG WITH. ALSO,IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR A ONE NIGHTER-KEEP LOOKING! DO WOMEN ACTUALLY JUST LOOK FOR ONE NIGHTERS THESE DAYS? I MEAN, IF THE SEX SUCKS-YEAH, BUT TO START OUT? HELL, FOR THAT MATTER, DO MEN STILL LOOK FOR ONE NIGHTERS? LOL-PROBABLY A MOOT POINT-RIGHT?...WE SHALL SEE.......Either way, I don't sleep with everyone I meet, and you shouldn't either (or expect to even if that is what you prefer)

UPDATE: Keep in mind what a friend is...they chat and hang regularly whether or not sex is involved. I like to get to know my friends and them to get to know me. If you can't be a true friend, don't bother me- sex is better between true friends rather then those barely known as recent events have shown me (thank you to that person for opening my eyes as to what type of friend they were not.) Anyhow, this profile is too deep for most to read between the lines and the rest of you, you probably won't even read it but good luck in your searches-my profile has been adjusted to greatly reduce the number of responses so that very few will waste my time since I care about me and my friends deeply and not many do, though many will swear they do as well..anyhow...good luck to all others in their searches!

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I just want to lose control in a trusted environment. I am
too used to dictating what happens and when. That's
all for now..Ask me in person and I'll tell you about
it someday!

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A rollercoaster, An airplane, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Never have..why? Sex is sex...just because they are a celebrity
does not mean they are any better-or worse- then the rest
of us.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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