Hello. Recently separated, and looking to rediscover who I am both as man and lover. I have a huge appreciation of women and I love female company. That makes me sound a bit of a player doesn't it, but that is definitely not the case. I have always been completely faithful, until now. I am articulate, considerate, have bags of discretion and common sense, and I think I am unassuming and easy company. My nature is both romantic and passionate, but in a good way. I have always striven to be a good per, but I have the same physical needs as any normal red-blooded male. I have a balanced, mature character that tries to see the good in everything and everyone around me. I am comfortable with my heterosexual identity and have a very good idea of what I am looking for from a relationship based on deep friendship, trust and mutually pleasurable sensual experiences! I hope to hear from you soon!

My Ideal Person Essentially I am looking for a regular chat or correspondence partner with whom I can develop a strong friendship with. I would also like to take things to a physical level if we get on well together.

Whilst I am realistic in my expectations a strong friendship based on trust, mutual respect and discretion are very important to me. I am ready to take my time to meet the right person but on the other hand I don’t want to wait forever as I have gone without fulfilling sex for a long time already.

I do prefer the friendship and company of older ladies and based on recent experiences they seem to appreciate me rather a lot too! I am particularly drawn to older women for their insights, experiences of life and love, and their ability to adapt and share their physical needs with their partner. I know that I have an awful lot to give the right partner. I have been told I am handsome but I will let you be the judge of that!

I am happy to meet someone who is single, divorced, separated or perhaps unhappily married like myself. This appeals to me as it would put us on the same level as we would both be seeking fulfilment in a similar way, and we would have an awful lot of passion and tenderness to give to each other. I do think that I have an awful lot to give the right person. Your family circumstances would not be a barrier or issue to me, though it would be nice if we could meet up from time to time at least, for romance, dating, and perhaps more. I am not the kind of man who can easily jump into bed with someone, if you hadn’t worked that out already, but nor am I lacking in passion, verve and attentiveness when the mutual chemistry feels right.

I find a lot of different women attractive, with a preference for brunettes or auburn haired women. I am very attracted to fuller figured bbw types, for me large full boobs, hips and a womanly backside are particularly attractive. I do like a lady to dress classily and with style, and like most men I am very keen on quality lingerie, as expensive as you can manage. I have a lot of sexual fantasies and would like to discuss these with the right female correspondent in due course.

If you are courteous, generous, tactile, discreet, down to earth and with a decent sense of humour then these are all qualities which are very attractive to me. I am willing and ready to work at a relationship with the right person, either online or in the flesh, depending on what you are looking for. I am a nice, decent down to earth guy and I hope to hear from you soon!

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Sharing a jacuzzi with my lover. We kiss passionately for
a while, then spend some time indulging in cunnilingus
and fellatio. My lover then encourages me to take her from
behind as the water swirls and bubbles around us.I give
her a long, slow, unhurried fucking, measuring her pace
and her need. At the same time I manually stimulate her clit
for her from behind, bringing her to a first orgasm. When
she can't take any more and we are both exhausted, I
climax either deep inside her, ramming hard, or in her
mouth, just as the lady wishes...

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each, A willingness to accept my own limits

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Afraid not. I do prefer brunettes / auburn haired wowen
though, and there is one lady in the public eye who is attractive
for her poise, class and delicious aristocratic accent.
And she has a lovely figure too!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Unsure/Prefer not to say

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