It's hard for one to describe themself, what I can tell you is i'm divorced, as my husband I met lied to me from day number 1 in our relationship and our 5 1/2 yr marrige and he now has had another woman living with him in our home we purchased together after getting married for the last 15 months and lied to me about that as well, I am honest and don't like liars or players...nor am I looking for a man for a 1 night stand, or a man that wants more then 1 woman. So if you want more then 1 woman don't bother to contact me as I'm NOT interested.. I don't need a man to take care of me as I am independent, I would like just 1 man in my life to share conversations, good times and even bad times when they happen. I'm looking for a best friend 1st and with the right one everything else will follow. So, if you are serious about getting to know me I suggest you take the time as I will not chase any man. I know who I am and what I am looking for and want. I will not waste your time if I have no interest in you.

My Ideal Person I'm here to chat with friends and make new friends. I once found the man I was looking for here in the Great Lakes chat room, he was the man of my dreams I thought until I found out he was NOT the man he pretended to be and lied to me from the very first day of our relationship and through our marrige and I just found out all the lies and the real person he is. He used to make me very happy, then he changed after we married and his real self started coming out and that wasn't a good person. I thought I had really found the man of my dreams but he was a fake. I am looking for just 1 man, I still am looking for that special man that I could give affection to and receive it from, have conversation with about anything and everything and not just for 1 night but for a lifetime. There is only 1 true happiness in life and that is to love and be loved.